. "When we think specifically of thoughts and feelings and memories that get in us in all different kinds of ways, and the holy Fathers, I think generally would say, certainly Maximus the Confessor, Thalasseus, and others in The Philokalia, they all say that the most difficult???well, that???s even too weak a word???the hardest to deal with are the memories, because they???re already in us." . . . . .