. . "In my normal momness, I would have reminded her how cool her character was and how happy she seemed, (subtext: ???No, you are happy, happy, happy, and I have no reason to feel guilty for putting you in a position that would make you anything other than constantly happy!???) But seeing A) that she WAS happy, and B) her determinedness to tell me she was sad, gave me a unique opportunity to observe t" . .