"Must a woman really scheme to get a man, using a painfully conscious strategy based on men???s psychological makeup, and wait and wait like Cinderella until he reaches out to her? ??? Truth-TellerFor a woman of character, honesty is the best policy ??? except when judicious honesty is a better policy, like on the second date, when you refrain from telling a guy that you and he should pick out side" . . . .