. . . "I didn't deal with it well but my instincts were to prevent her hurting the baby and then to sooth the baby, but I then had a sobbing DD on the floorDD also wakes him up on purpose because she finds him boring when he is asleepplease help me deal with this gently and properly - I am turning into a shouty fishwife DD is a good girl really and most of the time is very sweet with the baby" .