. "as heaven. here, food is one of the things we talk about. a lot of people, like me, dont eat very well. our families give us the same thing and it is cooked really poorly. i dont know if i have told you that we eat with our hands. there is a communal bowl and everyone sits around and eats out of it. now you may understand why i got sick. i wash my hands with soap before i eat but my family does no" . . .