. . "Last but not least, make more friends, i mean, friends of great qualities, supportive, out-going, sociable, well-organized, helpful, warmth,,,. it does not hurt to talk with guys like these. here is a tip to decide whether a guy is sincere or hypocritical: try to judge whether he is aming to make himself look better when he talks to you. so hurt wrote: I am dating a chinese guy and he was born in c" . .