" help breathe NOT life support......we allowed it and at first things were improving but then she 'needed' it and had a cerebral hemorrage.....we knew it was time to let her go...and we did.......it was and still is the hardest moment of my entire life.........other than every day that i miss her and feel so sad that such a beautiful person was not able to live a full and happy, cancer free life.." . . . .