"and any family it is faced that, there is nothing harder. and it just grows your heart and it applies to anybody. anything i have learned from my son really applies to everybody, including myself, in terms of not being able to afford a cynical or negative attitude. so sydney pollack said to me, how are you going to do this, because it is so disturbing, yet, it could be comedic. and i said, i know from" . . . .