. "so why do you want to get married? sure loneliness hurts. but what are your expectations? you know men? they too ache for love. they too have no clue what lies in stoire for them. two people with no clue about the other gender in general and the other person in particular get married... and before long have only reason to STAY married - commitment to the marriage. I am not telling not to pine for a" . . .