Especially if you do not have children, because they take that spot. (Here is a post I wrote on her memorial: <a href="http://ellemeyers.blogspot.com/2011/06/3-year-memorial-of-best-dog-ever.html.)As">http://ellemeyers.blogspot.com/2011/06/3-year-memorial-of-best-dog-ever.html.)As</a> for your move to Arizona and away from the corporate world, it is amazing how you can refind yourself during that time.