But the fact remains that there is a cost, and you should not be having more children than you can afford. <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/15654013636892916062">http://www.blogger.com/profile/15654013636892916062</a> Erika Martin ??? Stampin??? Mama ANd then you have the ass-hats who make it even cheaper to have children by NOT having health insurance or even going to the doctor, which is just neglect, in my opinion.