As young as he is, your boyfriend might not have been in a relationship before where sex was a normal part of the relationship, and not a topic of discussion and planning and nervousness (and potential drama) on his part or his partner's.posted by MadamM at 6:28 PM on December 30, 2009 [5 favorites] He has no reason to initiate sex -- you always do it for him.posted by Jaltcoh at 6:33 PM on Decemb