OR the Dependents.Therefore those at the DEA Call Center will ONLY answer General Questions to The Veteran.So, have your wife call them...and you can be right there...in case you are needed for anything.Here is a form that Dependent's can fill out...giving Whomever, usually The Veteran.Permission for the DEA Call Center to talk to Whomever, usually The Veteran...about the Dependent's benefits, etc