firstable im so sorry u have to go true this . with ur loser husband.kiss I behind goodbye. u do not need to be the spear . u his wife and if he was filling to go with other girl and have and affair. why he wasn't a men and tell u and go with ur lives I know is hard u have to little angels but u are a person who deserve respect and love and if he is doing this to u how the u going to boulive in him