If you show them that your home is a place of joy, serenity and playfulness (in a good sense, of course) I do not think they would judge you as hypocrite; on the contrary, you will transmit them the right behaviour to adopt in front of different people: family are special; strangers are to be respected, but they do not own your heart.Sorry for the ramblings, it is quite hot here, too :)Have a wonder