This is not about the DH going to AA. Not one person has directed OP to tell her DH to go to AA.it is about OP needing to go to Al-Anon, which is a support group that helps people understand: - whether the person in their life is a problem drinker- how they can support the problem drinker in their life appropriatelyUnfortunately, if he IS a problem drinker (and it sounds like he is, based on the OP