while I appreciate the thoughtfulness and General sentiment of your post (non-judgemental) there are some key issues we diverge about: 1) impossible odds" = your house is on fire and there is a tornado down the street, Not: I have 6 kids (1 ? with special needs) so lemme more than double that with 8 more, with no regard as to how they will be emotionally or financially taken care of (negligent ch