We must never stop desiring [and here I disagree with Leo Bersani, who writes, Sociability is a form of relationality uncontaminated by desire-as if to say, desire gets in the way of a truly pan-sociability; further, following Freud, it often leads to various forms of destructiveness], but we must stop expecting anything in particular.As to singularity, I will hang on to this idea--not because I