OMG...I laughed so hard at this, Ciiel!!!...the menopause comment was hysterical!...<br /><br />I certainly hope I am doing a good job...overall, the kids seem happy...even my moody teenage son...and I try my best to show them that I love them each day...I am not the best mom for teaching discipline...keeping their rooms clean...that sort of thing, but I am pretty good on the finding humor, laughing