this is so spot freaking on. sometimes when i think metafilter (or my family or friends or other websites) do not do X topic well - the real problem is that i do not do that topic well. i remembered this lesson elsewhere on the internet today and i kept myself from getting indigent and righteously pissed off.posted by nadawi at 5:17 PM on December 29, 2010 [3 favorites] I have been here--mostly as a l