invited to ben???s birthday parties. i can stop by at the drop of hat and i???m always welcome. when their sweet pup sampson died, my home was a place of comfort. when i???m at their house at bedtime, the kids always ???want me to come in and say good-night.??? when i borrow todd???s sander and forget to return it, he gives me the kind of crap a brother gives a sister. we celebrate together. these