I highly recommend that your sister's friend locate a similar group in her area.here is a place to start:First Candle/SIDS Alliance (a national network of SIDS support groups) 1314 Bedford Avenue Suite 210 Baltimore, MD 21208 1-800-221-7437 or 1-410-653-8226 www.firstcandle.org also:National SIDS Resource Center 2070 Chain Bridge Road Suite 450 Vienna, VA 22181 1-703-821-8955 www.sidscenter.org Pri