I am guilty. halima ??? on 15th December, 2008 at 5:12 pm Jai It???s strange isn???t it- it just occured to me that while we debate the finer points ??? and there are finer points despite the way the discussion has been turned??? the most important point is perhaps the one you reminded us with: forcing a girl to have sex with someone against her wishes on her so-called weddding night.