Thinking some more about John Terry and it seems fair to say that if a white (English working class male) person ???stands up to??? a member from an ethnic group ??? they are called racist, so, what can I say?, how can I behave?For example I know that if there is a queue I let black people and women in front of me, but can I disagree with a black person?Can I argue?Can I insult them, what if they