The most hurtful thing is that I am now to blame for everything. and in desperation to prove myself, I???ve exaggerated, embellished and lied about things to desperately try to make him see what is happening to him, me and us???. but now having been honest about that, I???m the ???liar???, who he didn???t get a valentines gift for, but whose mother got a wonderful mother???s day present last month