on. 4. u may start to kiss or whatever. 5. touching starts to take place. 6. two of u get Unclad. 7. the business starts.If u can not stop yourself from reaching stage 4 at most, then you are not serious, hiss. this is one of the reasons why i do not think cheatin should be accepted. it is good to forgive o, especially being a Christian, but, i dnt even know. people should not cheat if they really l