But in reality, one of these situations has racist undertones and the other is just dumb white people at a party small talk.posted by Lutoslawski at 1:15 PM on July 16, 2014 [2 favorites] Yeah, but when it happens to white people it is pretty much like Who Gives A Fuck? because saying this kind of stuff is not likely to make a white person feel unwelcome in his own country, or it is not something he