Very true emmie, I am so glad you have become who you are and want to be now too :) I am a mum of 4 and 1 of my children is a boy but from the moment he could walk and talk I have often said to his dad ( not when he is around ) I think he could be Gay, he loves feminine stuff but my heart beaks because he knows that only girls are supposed to wear bangles, make up, sparkly shoes ( he doesnt think