We initially note that defendant correctly cites Bowie v Arder, 441 Mich 23, 48-49; 490 NW2d 568 (1992), for the proposition that generally a third party, including a grandparent, ???cannot create a custody dispute by simply filing a complaint in circuit court alleging that giving legal custody to the third party is in the best interests of the child.???[19] Defendant also correctly states that a