posted by lola to Pets & Animals (8 answers total) Oh, forgot to mention, he works the majority of time at home so she particularly feels the loss of his presence.posted by lola at 10:37 AM on January 10, 2004 Lola, the main thing is not to act like her behavior is a big problem, because then she will just be *more* anxious for things to get back to normal, so she can get away from the worried lady.