March 23, 2013 at 3:59 am blondie it would not be considered a birthday gift. a wedding ring is a condition of marriage. if the marriage never takes place, he has ever right to ask for the ring back. if you keep it, sell it, whatever, he can take you to court and you will be ordered to pay back the value of the ring. if you feel some of the debt you incured should be payed by him, you need to take