t a rocket scientist is not meant to understand?you do not want men to understand you,not really-cause then u r vulnerable.the trick of it is then, to get a woman, be a jerk- cause then she will have a goal- to change you into her ideal man. noone really wants someone they feel they have to live up to, especially in this world full of 'princesses'.if chivalry is dead, it is b/c women do not feed it. ok.