He was very rich and very rude, rarely having a nice word to say about anyone, even his own children (and he was especially rude to my mother.) So we were all shocked that Uncle D would deign to show up.But he did, and he is the one who did the thing no one should really laugh at, but we did anyway.After the graveside service, all of us were invited to help fill in P's grave (he was cremated, so it