Dis is d best advice so far,to add up to dis,my dear be very prayerful too,and ur marriage is very normal.my elder sister is married to a military man and she is facin same tin,well she is used to it cos our dad was a military man,I can speak hausa so well,I can speak yoruba,my language which is Ibibio(akwa ibom) and igbo.so stay strong sis its well.