The conversations have to reach people somehow and every human being should know the details of what is and is not rape, what is coercive and damaging sex, and that it is common to THINK you know what consent means and be wrong, so thinking you understand is an obstacle to getting a better understanding.posted by xarnop at 10:41 AM on September 20, 2013 [3 favorites] elizardbits: You do not get to di