She is thinking, No more blow jobs.So I know I am not the only husband with this complaint.And what is that Tom Waits' line, getcha little somthing that you can not get at home.I will bet if you looked into why men stray, you will find a lot of them have been shut down at home.I am old now, and truly happy in my marriage, but there was a time this was a real issue.Another reason men do not talk about this