i have seen these parents in action, as they are friends of ours and they are excellent parents with a sweet little girl. i think if you guys are ready to get possibly less (LOL), then i have got a sling you could borrow. you have got most of the stuff already, plus if dd is still in diapers and that cost is an issue, we have cloth you could borrow (assuming we will not be needing them... we are defina