factor of bein with your loved one alone on some of those nites yall usually enjoy. but then again i wouldnt mind havin the joy of havin my own child around. but im not Dr Phil and to b honest he himself is a joke. so i guess what im tryin to say TJ is this. if u wanna hav a kid and phil is ready and you think???no, KNOW that yall both r ready for that next step in the family???by all means go fo