• Reply SomeIdiot December 3, 2010 at 1:27 pm I am a heterosexual cis gen male, and although it is good practice (as a sign of respect to the individual) to ask, I never stress out about gender because there are only two reasons for it to be relevant, maybe when your in the sack and you just don???t like that type of person or when your in a social situation, such as a conversation where pronouns ar