I often worry that my dh could write a similar post though we talk all the time about how we cope.Our house is a tip.... we do as much as we can and its never enough to !make it presentable but our priority is school, his work, mjy work (I.e. income!) eating, and it being clean enough to do it safely...And when we are tired we close the doors, smuggle up in our untidyu but warm and safe nest and w