Knowing that we are not alone helps a bit, but only a bit because we will open that drawer again when the moods strikes us, only to close it again a few days to a few weeks later having only mastered ???Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star.??? I???m not stupid, I CAN learn to play, it???s just that to play at the level I want to takes lots of practice, and practice takes time, and time is a premium for us